I wanted to create this blog to share my story in the hope that it helps others feel less alone. If you’re a parent of a child with ASD, or know someone who is, I want you to know: I understand, and I’m here to help.
My son, Bertie, was diagnosed with ASD at the age of four, after a long journey of assessments and countless battles for recognition. I’ve raised him as a single parent since he was just three and a half months old, after leaving a domestic violence relationship. So, as you can imagine, the idea of travelling with Bertie felt impossible for quite a while.
Not because I didn’t want him to see the world – I did – but because I was terrified of the unknowns that come with travelling with a neurodivergent child. But after finally taking him on his first holiday, my only thought was: why didn’t I do this sooner? He absolutely loves going away, and I couldn’t ask for a better travel buddy.
The Reality of Travelling with a Child with ASD
If you’re a parent or carer of a child with ASD, you’ll know just how much thought and preparation goes into planning a trip. It’s not just about booking flights and packing bags – it’s about anticipating needs, managing routines, and preparing your child for every part of the journey.
For us, tools like ‘now and next’ boards have been incredibly helpful to explain what’s happening each day. Talking through what to expect at the airport or on the flight can also make a huge difference. The key is finding what works for your child and giving them time to process it.
Support from Airlines, Airports & Hotels
Over the years, I’ve learnt just how supportive travel providers can be when you ask the right questions. Some airlines offer extra baggage allowance – ideal if you need to pack pads, wipes, or medication. Others offer adapted transfers or early boarding.
Airport lounges have become a go-to for us. They’re quieter and far calmer than busy cafés or gate areas. Some airports even have dedicated sensory rooms, which are an absolute game-changer.
When it comes to accommodation, I always let the hotel or villa know in advance that I’m travelling with a child with ASD. You’d be surprised how willing they are to help – whether that’s setting aside a plate of chips for a selective eater, or pointing out the quieter areas of the hotel.
Why I’m Sharing This
Travel has become easier for us the more we’ve done it and that’s exactly why I want to keep sharing our story. Through this blog, I hope to offer tips and tricks that I’ve picked up along the way, and give you a glimpse into the holidays Bertie and I have shared together.
If you’re feeling unsure or simply overwhelmed at the idea of travelling with a child who has ASD – I’ve been there. And I’m proud to now help other families take those first steps. I regularly book holidays for families and single parents with children who have additional needs. They don’t have to explain everything – I already get it, and I’ve already got it covered.
If this resonates with you, or if you’d just like to speak to someone who truly understands, feel free to give me a call on 07928 783486. I’m always happy to help – whether it’s booking your next holiday or just having a supportive chat.